Why Dogs Make the Best Teammates

I'm not suggesting that dogs will improve your next team meeting because of their outstanding talents in computer architecture — nothing like that. But they do know how to be great teammates. If you doubt that, have a dog or two attend your next team meeting, and notice how much more fun it is. Here are some of the things dogs do so well.

• Dogs are loyal. They'll support the team in any way they can. They won't knowingly do anything to harm the team or any of its members.
• Dogs are 100% trustworthy. They're reliable, dependable, and honest. They'll do as you ask to the best of their ability.
• Dogs show their feelings. When they're happy to see someone, there's absolutely no doubt about it. When they'd rather not see someone, that's just as obvious.
• When dogs feel ashamed of having transgressed, they show it. They don't lie about it or pretend they did nothing wrong. They fess up. It's their way of apologizing. They continue to apologize until the apology is accepted. When it is, they move on.
• Dogs are brave. Dogs show their feelings. When
  they're happy to see someone, there's
  absolutely no doubt about it.They'll take significant risks to support the team.
• Dogs are talented readers of their teammates' moods. They know how others are feeling. If someone is celebrating, they always want to join in. They try to comfort anyone who seems to them to be feeling low.
• Dogs bear no grudges. If there were difficulties yesterday, that was yesterday. Today is a new day. They let the past stay past.
• Dogs keep their promises. It helps that they make no promises they can't keep.
• Dogs are always looking for fun. Whatever they're doing, they try to make it fun. Nothing overly complicated, just fun.
• Dogs quickly recognize the faithless and disrespectful among us, but they don't write them off. They try to win them over.
• Dogs deal with their teammates one by one. They won't shun one teammate because other teammates do. Everyone is a possible pal.
• Dogs make their preferences known. They let us know what they like and what they don't. That way, we can then avoid asking them to do what they really don't want to do.
• Dogs are very clear about their moods. No faking. If something bothers them, they make it clear, and it gets straightened out.
• Dogs focus on right now. They don't let tomorrow's worries spoil today's fun.
• Dogs accept their place in the hierarchy. They're grateful for the good they find in their lives.
• Dogs can't be fooled into believing that virtual meetings are as good as face-to-face meetings. If they can't smell the other people in the meeting, they know the meeting isn't real and they adjust their expectations accordingly.

Dogs differ, just like people differ. Maybe some of these attributes don't fit for every dog you know. That's OK. They don't fit for every person I know, either.  Top    Next Issue

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