Still More Things I've Learned Along the Way

When I learn something, I sometimes wish I had learned it long ago. If it could have saved me trouble, or led me somewhere I find appealing, I write it down. Here's another installment from my growing collection.

• If your workload is totally unreasonable, better time management won't help much.
• If you work for a jerk, striving for superior performance is worse than a waste of time. It keeps you from finding another job.
• Multitasking is a hoax. What we really do is task switching, which drains energy and wastes time. Psychologists have studied multitasking in detail. [Weinschenk 2012]
• If my success depends on yours, but yours doesn't depend on mine, I might be in big trouble.
• Creating great ideas from scratch is really hard and really rare. Many great ideas are clever combinations of other great and less-than-great ideas.
• Organizations and their people either succeed together or fail together.
• Risk-averse organizations risk stifling creativity and innovation.
• Threats work in the short run, but they drive people away in the long run.
• If you decide to give up, you'll never know whether you could have done it.
• You can't trust everything you find on the Internet, but some Internet communities and Web sites are very reliable. Find some you trust.
• Perfection isn't achievable, but with practice, you can make the imperfections insignificant.
• Cherish imperfections. They can sometimes lead to wonderful, exciting places.
• If a difficult decision gets easier when you pretend you're deciding it for somebody else, the difficulty is probably about you, not the decision.
• When all your choices are bad, choosing usually isn't the hard part. The hard part is accepting that you must choose the least bad choice.
• To get more choices, try letting go of dogma and ideology.
• When people suddenly renege on commitments, they could be just untrustworthy, or maybe somebody powerful ordered them to do it. Some people would let you believe the former before they would ever acknowledge the latter.
• You can't When I learn something that
  I wish I had learned long
  ago, I write it downsolve problems you don't realize you have.
• You can't use assets you don't realize you have.
• The Development orientation focuses on figuring out how to break the mold. The Operational orientation focuses on using the mold more perfectly.
• Creativity and Freedom are partners. You can't have much of one without help from the other.
• I've forgotten so many great ideas that I'm sure some must have been better than any idea I've pursued. So now when I get an idea I write it down (or type it in). Now if only I can figure out how not to lose what I've written down (or typed in)…
• Outsourcing risk management is risky. Something about having to live with the consequences of risks makes people better risk managers.
• The easiest way to offend somebody is to disparage something personal they can't change.
• If all you know is where you don't want to go, you'll get there faster.

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More things I've learned

Some Things I've Learned Along the Way  [October 19, 2005]

When I have an important insight, I write it down in a little notebook. Here are some items from my personal collection.

More Things I've Learned Along the Way  [December 11, 2013]

Some entries from my personal collection of useful insights.

More Things I've Learned Along the Way: IV  [July 31, 2019]

When I gain an important insight, or when I learn a lesson, I write it down. Here's Part IV from my personal collection. Example: When it comes to disputes and confusion, one person is enough.

More Things I've Learned Along the Way: V  [March 30, 2022]

When I gain an important insight, or when I learn a lesson, I make a note. Example: If you're interested in changing how a social construct operates, knowing how it came to be the way it is can be much less useful than knowing what keeps it the way it is.

More Things I've Learned Along the Way: VI  [April 19, 2023]

When I gain an important insight, or when I learn a lesson, I make a note. Example: If you're interested in changing how a social construct operates, knowing how it came to be the way it is can be much less useful than knowing what keeps it the way it is.

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